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Sunday, February 24, 2013

Plumb Nilly


We recently celebrated our 44th wedding anniversary by treating our sons and daughters-in-law to a long weekend in a rental outside of Philadelphia called Plumb Nilly....

Built in 1736 by a Welsh farmer, it was added onto at some later date and totally renovated in the 1920's by architect, R. Brognard Okie, who had also overhauled William Penn's estate, Pennsbury Manor.

My purpose in choosing such a place was because my 5th great-grandfather lived in and around the Philadelphia area from 1740 to 1780.  I have located the three properties where he lived, but only one house remains standing and that one is in Chester County not too far from Plumb Nilly....


It has been expanded onto, like Plumb Nilly, and the oldest part, where he lived, now houses a country post office.  Several years ago I was able to stand inside and experience, for a moment, where my predecessors had lived from 1751 to 1780.  This was especially important to me because for the past 20 years I've been researching and writing the stories of my father's ancestors.  When you think about it, each generation is affected in some way by the previous generation.  There is a common thread that may run through families beyond DNA.  So I was thrilled to celebrate the continuity of our family in such a setting.  

I began the weekend by giving each of our offspring a mug with our picture on it--a photo taken in the 1970's before we started our family....
Since our anniversary is the day after Valentine's Day I chose this for the other side of the cup because it looked like a Family Tree.  I loved that the hearts represented the love we have for one another....





I spent a lot of time just sitting in the various rooms in the 4-story house....absorbing its history--all the families that have come and gone.  Sometimes all we may leave behind for future generations are the houses we lived our lives in, but that is enough if love was shared in those houses with those who lived and visited there.  

Here are some more photos of Plumb Nilly....
This entrance leads into a cozy den with fireplace
This is the entrance to the second floor that we used
That's the door we entered...behind the stairs are the stairs to the first floor kitchen/dining room
That's the door at the bottom of the stairs into the dining room
I absolutely LOVED this room and wished I could transport it to my house

Back up to the 2nd floor.  That's the view into the formal living room
This formal room was bright and cheery

Up the stairs to the 3rd floor bedrooms
This bedroom had its own bath

Back out in the hall to reach the Master bedroom around the corner

I came home and hung curtains on my 4-poster bed

This is the sitting room in the Master bedroom--there is a working fireplace just to the right
To reach the 4th floor bedrooms you had to open an attic door and climb some very steep stairs
Here is the other 4th-floor bedroom--there is a bathroom on this floor as well

Back down the stairs....

To that cozy den with the fireplace where we kept a fire burning each night

Adjacent to the den was another sitting room
It also contained a working fireplace

Plumb Nilly has been the summer home for a lovely lady from NYC for the past 28 years, but now it is up for sale because her family has grown up and find little time to come "home".  Another family will take their place, add their stories, share their love.  I felt privileged to spend a few days and nights there.  Thank you, Etan.  It was such a pleasure to meet you and to spend some time in your lovely home-away-from home.


Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Be My Valentine

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Be my love, for no one else can end this yearning;
This need that you and you alone create.
Just fill my arms the way you've filled my dreams,
The dreams that you inspire with ev'ry sweet desire.
Be my love, and with your kisses set me burning;
One kiss is all that I need to seal my fate,
And, hand-in-hand, we'll find love's promised land.
There'll be no one but you for me, eternally,
If you will be my love.

Be my love, for no one else can end this yearning;
This need that you and you alone create.
Just fill my arms the way you've filled my dreams,
The dreams that you inspire with ev'ry sweet desire.
Be my love, and with your kisses set me burning;
One kiss is all that I need to seal my fate,
And, hand-in-hand, we'll find love's promised land.
There'll be no one but you for me, eternally,
If you will be my love.

by Sammy Cahn



New England Adventure-Days 9 & 10



I’ve decided I could become an Emily Dickinson and live out my life writing from this spot....

We requested breakfast at 8:00 along with another guest who had to be at his Spanish Immersion class by 9:00.  We enjoyed our conversation with him.  He was taking his family to Mexico to visit his ancestral homeland for three weeks at Christmas time and wanted to improve his rusty Spanish.  The day was going to be beautiful--so clear....




We had to cross the river to get to the Franklin Delano Roosevelt family home and Presidential Library/Museum in Hyde Park, NY.  We arrived about 9:40....

At 10:00 we saw an introductory film.  Then at 10:30 the National Park Service guide gave a witty and educational tour of Roosevelt’s family home followed by a self-guided tour of the museum.  Here is one of the rooms in the home....
....and Roosevelt's desk....

It was one of the most interesting historical tours I’ve ever been on.  Franklin’s and Eleanor’s lives crossed so many people’s lives—both famous and ordinary—and covered so many years of history I found myself reading just about every exhibit and watching every video there was.  Finally, we took a very late break for lunch at the café on the grounds and then posed for this picture with the President and Mrs. Roosevelt, which a kind, elderly gentleman offered to take for us:
You can read more about the FDR home HERE and about the Presidential Library and Museum HERE.

It was close to 3:00 by the time we got over to Val-Kill about a mile away, the house that Eleanor lived in after Franklin died.  Eleanor originally had it built in 1926 as a factory on the grounds of the Roosevelt estate to house furniture making and other crafts for the area farmers to work in during the off-season.  When it failed to be a profit-making venture by 1936, Eleanor converted it into a residence for herself to use when she needed to get away on her own from either the White House or her mother-in-law who still ran the estate house.  You can find out more about the Eleanor Roosevelt Center at Val-Kill HERE.  

The next tour at Val-Kill was not to start until 4:00.  In the meantime, they suggested we walk over to Stone Cottage, the house where their son, John Franklin, lived with his family for a time....

Edna Gurewitsch, the author of "Kindred Souls: The Devoted Friendship of Eleanor Roosevelt and Dr. David Gurewitsch”, was to talk about the photography exhibit on display there by her late husband and about her friendship with Mrs. Roosevelt.  Mrs. Gurewitsch would also sign copies of her book later after the house tour.   However, the talk ran late and she was to be somewhere else so she and her party did not come back to the gift shop to sign the books. When the staff realized they would not be able to get her attention, I ran after her and had her sign my book in the parking lot--which is not like me at all, which shows how much I'd been taken by her presentation.  

The cottage was extremely cozy.  I can see why Eleanor chose to live there rather than in the big house....



Because Hyde Park is on the opposite side of the Hudson River from our B&B we decided to drive to the point across from the B&B and see if we could take pictures.  We managed to find a road that took us near the river where we got out of the car next to a Poughkeepsie recycling facility and because we didn’t see a no-trespassing sign we followed a path that led to a bridge across the train tracks (the passenger line ran along the east side of the river) and then down to the river.  The sun was very low in the sky causing a glare across the water so it was hard to see, even if we were in the right spot.   

Before we headed back across the bridge to the west side we went in search of a place to eat and settled on an Applebees.  We both had the new Bruschetta Burger which was quite tasty. 

I spent the rest of the evening reading the book I bought on Eleanor Roosevelt and David Gurewitsch’s friendship.

Day 10 – Monday, October 16, 2006

It was the day to head home.  We woke up to fog and no view of the river.  Our room was in the front over the porch in the center of this photo...

We had breakfast alone at 8:00—the other couple in the B&B were not to have their breakfast until 9:00.  Our hostess talked about her trips down Route 15 to visit her family in the Charlottesville, VA, area where they’d moved to some years ago after her father retired.  She’d lived in this house since 1964 when she was 22 and expecting her first child with her first husband.  She and her second husband started the B&B 10 years ago in order to afford to stay in the house.  She said they pay $10,000 a year in real estate and school taxes!  She told us about the family farm near Catskill, NY, that she rents out called Cauterskill Creek Farm.  I’d love to rent it for a week during the summer!

We were on the road by 9:00 and home by 2:30, having stopped in Harrisburg for lunch.  I read the "Kindred Souls" book on the entire trip.  Eleanor Roosevelt was a remarkable woman.

We arrived home to leaves covering the driveway....

....and Poetry, our Calico Cat, eager to see us.  We had a wonderful time, but it was good to be home.





Tuesday, February 12, 2013

New England Adventure-Day 8



Day 8 – Saturday, October 14, 2006

We got to Shelburne Museum by 11:00.  The ticket was good for two days because it would take that long to see everything.  This Horsehoe Barn was a held carriages, coaches, and sleighs....

Monday, February 11, 2013

New England Adventure-Day 7



Day 7 – Friday, October 13, 2006

I could have spent the day in Goldilock’s bed....
....but the shops in Stowe Village enticed me to get up and head to town after Ken made us a big breakfast.  There we saw the most amazing art-crafted furniture in one shop, and I realized what I’d do with my money if I ever became wealthy.  I especially liked the coffee table game tables--but I just went to the website for the furniture and found they no longer carry the game table but they do have the mirrors I liked.  It was a beautiful morning to be walking around the small village.  We even came upon a consignment shop where we found some more books and a cast iron muffin skillet for just $1.

Sunday, February 10, 2013

New England Adventure - Day 6



Day 6 – Thursday, October 12, 2006

We were up early because we wanted to catch the sun rising over the mountains from our back porch on the second floor.  The rain had stopped and there was fog rising between a hill and the mountains to the West.  I dressed and went down to the dining room to get cups of coffee and was soon sitting in the lounge chair on the porch with my journal and coffee awaiting the sun to appear over the ridge....  

We met two other couples at breakfast besides the couple we visited with the evening before.  One was visiting from England.  They were over here to see their son who attended a university in Boston, and then they were touring the area.  

Regrettably,  we were on our way all too soon.  We had much ground to cover as we were headed up to Stowe.  But first we wanted to tour Hildene, the summer home, and later, full-time home of President Lincoln's only surviving child, Robert Todd Lincoln.  We arrived just as it opened....

Inside we were greeted by a very knowledgeable tour guide who gave us some of the history and "played" (he pushed a button) the huge Aeolian organ that Robert Lincoln had installed for his wife.  Lincoln also bought all 250 "automated" rolls of music that were made for it.  The 1,000 pipes lined the walls of the landing of the staircase as you enter into the grand foyer.  His granddaughter lived in the house until 1975.  It was an amazing house situated on the edge of a cliff overlooking a beautiful valley with the mountains as a backdrop.  HERE is their website.  This is a view from the back of the house....
Here is another view of the front of the house....

It began to cloud over again so we went on our way, stopping at the Orvis Store and Outlet first. We considered the main store a “museum” as we could not fathom anyone paying $1,200 for a coat!  By now the skies had opened up and the rain came pouring down.  We wanted to make the Vermont Country Store by lunch time and then head north to Stowe.  Once again we relied on the compass and instinct to get us to the unmarked Route that would take us into the heart of Vermont.  As we climbed further up into the Green Mountains in the rain we enjoyed the solitude the rain brought.  The Vermont Country Store in Weston was a destination in itself.  There I bought a pottery soup pot and an enamelware colander to match my cobalt blue kitchen colors in addition to some other items.  After lunch the sun broke through the clouds and we had a pleasant drive through the valley northward.  When Ken stopped for gas I spied a used book store/bakery/café next door so we spent some time in there.  Ken found two 19th century editions of Longfellow’s books of poems and I found a Barbara Cooney book I hadn’t seen before.

We did not arrive at the Goldilocks Cottage in Stowe, VT until just after 5:00.  We planned to stay two evenings.  I looked forward to just relaxing with no particular sightseeing destination.  We would buy a few groceries so we could eat in and even do a load of laundry.  So you can imagine my consternation when we did not find the key under the door mat as promised.  Ken began looking under everything there was to look under.  He circled the cottage, trying windows and the sliding glass door....

Meanwhile I began calling the numbers the owner had e-mailed me for the caretaker.  At the first number the woman did not know what I was talking about.  The second number the message center was full and I could not leave a message.  I was beginning to have deja vu of our first day's problems at the Vienna Inn.  By now I was having to plug the cell phone into the car to use the car’s battery.  I was just glad I was getting reception at least because we had none at the Battenkill Inn.  I called another number and the fellow who answered was the owner’s husband, but he was on a tug boat in the New York harbor he said.  He was no help, despite his concern, other than to tell us to call Jill, the owner I’d spoken with when I made the reservation.  I called both her house number and cell number and left messages.  By now it was after 5:30 and I was beginning to imagine having to drive back into Stowe (only a mile) and seeing if there was a room in the Inn there for the evening.  Just then I heard Ken yell the good news that he’d found a key hidden behind the electrical box!  Upon opening the door he found the key for us on the dresser just inside the door.  I placed calls to Jill and her husband to let them know we were in, then started unloading the car.  Then my phone rang.  It was Jill.  She was very apologetic.  The next morning while we were out her caretaker left us a bottle of wine and an apology.  I wrote later in the guest book that now we know how the Three Bears could have kept Goldilocks out of their house—don’t hide the key under the mat!  She was still quite concerned about our having a good stay and sent another apology in the mail offering us a 20% discount the next time we want to stay there.  This is taken from the entrance of the enclosed inner porch of the cabin....
I will have more photos of the cabin in tomorrow's post.  The photos, however, do not begin to convey the coziness.  The area off to the right behind the wood stove is the dining room and kitchen.  Behind me is the hallway to the bathroom and bedroom.  The loft also contained a bed.

After getting everything put away, for supper we decided to split my leftover sandwich from lunch and a can of soup I'd brought along.  Our tummies sufficiently full we drove back into town to look for a grocery store so we'd have food for our breakfast, lunch, and the next night's supper.  When we returned we slipped a CD into the BOSE and settled in for an evening of doing laundry and reading all the books we'd bought at the various authors' museums. 


Saturday, February 9, 2013

New England Adventure-Day 5



Day 5 – Wednesday, October 11, 2006

We had a delicious pancake breakfast with three of the other guests who’d flown up from Texas and rented a car—a couple traveling with his elderly mother just to see the changing leaves.  They’d come from northern Vermont the day before and gave us news we did not care to hear—the leaves were mostly off the trees.  Our host answered our questions about the house.  It seems Emily was not at all happy when it was built because it blocked her view of the mountains.  But she soon made friends with the children of the family, baking them cookies and playing with them.  However, they were all soon to die of typhoid fever and Emily began to refer to the house as the house of sorrows.  Here is one of the poems she wrote about the house we stayed in:

There's Been A Death In The Opposite House
by Emily Dickinson

There's been a death in the opposite house

As lately as to-day.

I know it by the numb look

Such houses have alway.



The neighbors rustle in and out,

The doctor drives away.

A window opens like a pod,

Abrupt, mechanically;



Somebody flings a mattress out,--

The children hurry by;

They wonder if It died on that,--

I used to when a boy.



The minister goes stiffly in

As if the house were his,

And he owned all the mourners now,

And little boys besides;



And then the milliner, and the man

Of the appalling trade,

To take the measure of the house.

There'll be that dark parade

Of tassels and of coaches soon;

It's easy as a sign,--

The intuition of the news

In just a country town.


Friday, February 8, 2013

New England Adventure-Day 4



Day 4 – Tuesday, October 20, 2006

We departed the Wayside Inn for a return visit to Concord so I could have my picture taken at the front door of Orchard House.  

Thursday, February 7, 2013

New England Adventure-Day 3



Day 3 – Monday, October 9, 2006

It was only an hour’s drive to Walden’s Pond.  Once off the Interstate we could not find the Route number when we came to a crossroads.  After driving a bit and not seeing a road sign we turned around and went the other direction.  I spotted a sign, “Concord Road”, and since that’s the direction we wanted we decided to follow it.  After half an hour we came to a road that we should not have come to, according to the map, but at least we knew where we were.  We took a right and within a few blocks we found the Route we had been looking for and were soon at Walden’s Pond just a mile down the road.  We were out on the path walking along the Pond by 9:15.  I cannot do it justice so I will not try to describe the serenity of the Pond (you must read Thoreau's account).  There were not very many people there yet, so it was not hard to imagine being in Thoreau’s time as we walked near the water’s edge along the path that was fenced in on both sides to protect the vegetation.  We could see a small electric-powered boat in the middle of the pond with a fellow at one end of a fishing pole....

Every so often we’d come upon stone steps leading down to the water’s edge.  At the bottom of the step you could see the bottom of the Pond several feet down....

When we got to the spot where Thoreau’s cabin had been we discovered a pile of rocks with a sign explaining that generations of people had added stones to mark their visit....

We walked down to the water’s edge and sat on a tree’s outgrown roots and contemplated the serenity for quite awhile....

The sun was sending sparkles across the lake that stirred my imagination.  I noted that it looked like fairies coming ashore for lunch....

We continued on around the lake stopping from time to time to view the Pond from its different vistas.  In this photo that's not the sky, it's the bottom of the Pond....

I let my imagination run wild and imagined this to be the entrance to a fairy house....

Finally, as we neared the end of the circuit Ken decided he had to put his feet in the pond.  We’d already seen some people swimming in the pond.  At it's deepest the pond is 103 feet deep—a “kettle pond”—and quite cold because of it....

By now it was starting to get crowded—it was Columbus Day and Walden Pond is a popular recreational destination.  After a visit to the gift shop we drove into Concord—just a couple miles up the road and found a small French bakery/cafe to have lunch.  HERE is more information on Walden's Pond.

We decided not to return to the Pond because of the crowds so we elected to tour Orchard House, Louisa May Alcott’s house in Concord, rather than waiting until Tuesday as I’d planned.  It was an interesting tour of her house—listening to the guide tell anecdotes from the family’s life and viewing the rooms where so much of Little Women had “taken place.”  To stand in her bedroom where she wrote her story was stirring....

We were also shown the School of Philosophy that her father, Bronson Alcott, had built on the property....

This little girl, in period dress, sat under this tree the whole time we were there....

At the gift shop I bought a copy of Louisa May Alcott's first book, published when she was 22, Flower Fables, with her father’s help.  I told the clerk that Louisa and I, as well as Louisa's father, all shared the same birthday.  I asked if that got me a discount.  Alas, no.  Anyway, Louisa wrote the stories for her friend Ellen Emerson, Ralph Waldo Emerson’s daughter, who had asked her to write down the stories she would tell about the fairies that lived in the woods of Walden Pond.  Thoreau would take the Emerson and Alcott children on nature walks and spoke of the woods as Fairyland.  This brought to mind my remark earlier in the day as I sat by the Pond declaring that the fairies were coming ashore for lunch!  More on Orchard House can be found HERE

We went back to the little cafe for coffee and pastries while we decided what to do next.  I wondered if the Emerson house might be open even though their website said they were closed on Mondays since the brochure I’d picked up earlier in the day said they were open on holidays.  This being Columbus Day we gathered up our things and headed back to Lexington Street.  The Emersons lived just up the street from the Alcotts.  It was open!  So we took that tour and found it most interesting....

The connection between Thoreau, the Alcotts, and Emerson was getting clearer.  It must have been an exciting place to be in the 1850’s and 60’s and 70’s!  More about Emerson can be found HERE.
  
We also toured the Concord Museum across the street where they had artifacts from Thoreau and Emerson as well as the lantern immortalized by Longfellow’s poem Paul Revere’s Ride.  A reproduction of Emerson's library can be seen HERE at Concord Museum.

It was now almost 5:00 and we had dinner reservations at The Wayside Inn in Sudbury, MA at 7:00 where we were spending the night.  This was the Inn that was immortalized by Longfellow’s poem Tales of the Wayside Inn.  We were now about to make another connection between our day’s visit of the various houses and museum by bringing Longfellow into the picture.  But first, we had to stop in at Walden’s Pond because we decided we wanted to add our own stones to the pile.  I later discovered that Walt Whitman had put a stone on the pile during his 1881 visit.

We arrived just after 5:00 and made the short walk to the house site, this time through the woods from the road.  Along the way a fellow in walking gear, noticing we looked lost, offered to show us the best way to our destination.  He said he'd been driving past the Pond for years on his way home from work when one day he decided to stop.  He's been walking around the Pond every day after work for several years now.  When we got our bearings we parted his company and proceeded to the house site, set our stones....

....and headed back along the path by the Pond....

All the good stone steps had been taken by others—some who were going in for a swim, others sitting with notebook in hand so I dipped my foot at the beach....

 ....and then we were on our way to The Wayside Inn....




We carried in our luggage to Room #1 and dressed for dinner.  Ken went on ahead to the Old Bar Room to have “America’s first cocktail”-- a Coow Woow which was three parts Rum and one part Ginger Brandy....



Every room in the Inn was quaint.  We ate by candlelight.  Ken had lobster pie and I had a traditional Yankee Pot Roast with mashed potatoes and Baked Indian Pudding for dessert. This is the dining room by daylight....

This mural was painted in the hallway....

Back in the room Ken was looking for the extra pillows and came upon the Secret Drawer Society!  The top drawer of the dresser was filled with letters dating back to 1986 from guests who had stayed in Room #1.  Most wrote about their surprise at finding the drawer, told about their reasons for being there, and even expressed feelings about various things.  One gentleman wrote about how much he loved his wife.  A young woman wrote about her love for her boyfriend but didn’t feel she’d told him just how much she did love him.  She hoped to marry him and left a blank area at the bottom of the note to be continued upon her return as his wife, which after 5 years had not be written upon.  I only got through about two dozen letters by the next morning before we had to be on our way again.  Ken had already fallen asleep by the time I set the letters aside.  As I climbed into the four-poster bed (it came with a step stool) I heard male voices coming up through the floor grate by my side of the bed.  I heard them talking about the Yankees—no doubt discussing their loss and subsequent elimination from the World Series contention.  However, the next morning as I read more letters I discovered several that spoke of a ghost named Jerusha who was rumored to have visited the room.  Maybe it wasn’t those Yankees the pair were discussing after all!!  Ken and I both took a few minutes to write our missives for the SDS.  This is what he wrote:

I have walked on the shores of Walden Pond and splashed
my feet in it's cool clear water.  I have visited with
Alcott, Emerson, and Thoreau and tonight will sleep in
Longfellow's Wayside Inn.

Simplify, Simplify -- H. D. Thoreau

Today I stand on Concord's North Bridge
Where British and Colonial stood on opposite ridge
For Liberty, Peace the Colonials Stood
And shed their blood on this ancient wood
They willed us Freedom and liberty
And paid the price - It is not free.

This is what I wrote:

If by chance we shall meet again
I will leave my note for all to find
I've come to see--to search--begin
A new life from all I've left behind.

My children grown--all fine young men
No longer need my care and nurture
I've come to be inspired and then
Perhaps find what lies in my future.

Sparkles on Walden Pond I saw
Like fairies coming ashore for lunch--
I was amazed, and stared in awe--
Looking for berries, I had a hunch.

And then the S.D.S. to find
And read the musings of so many--
The kindred spirits and like kind....................................................
To live a purposeful life one must live life on purpose.

You can read about the history of The Wayside Inn HERE.  


It was a magical day in many ways.  We were excited to see what new surprises--good ones like today's--lay ahead for us.